I am a 29 yr old woman, haven’t had a serious relationship in over a year. It’s not like I chose not to but then the men out there are not just serious. The ones I like, are either not available or they not looking for something serious and the ones I don’t like are flooding my DM. Why is it so hard. Have got 2 sneaky links, one is married the other is about to. I got a job that pays me #6M annually (I’m grateful but that money in this Tinubu regime is nothing). I am working on doing my pdg before masters (that’s what you get when you go to poly). My savings in roughly #8M. Sometimes I think I’m not doing enough! I’m the first daughter/first born, pressure to get married and have a child because I did fibroid surgery recently. Hmm can life just get any easier. Any ways all in all I am grateful. Just wanted to rant because as an overthinker I am going crazy. It is well!