I just found out my cousin’s wife was sexually abused early in her 3rd trimester last year and I’m so broken. I knew when she was kidnapped but only told me about the sexual abuse that happened recently. She’s still one of the most jovial people I know so I never would’ve guessed. What makes me sadder is she never told my cousin as she’s concerned it may be used against her later. I don’t know how to help her. Why can’t men control themselves. God why!