Two years ago, my husband returned early from a work trip and found me gisting with someone who once had feelings for me. He was angry at first but later calmed down. That night, I refused intimacy because I don’t get why he was angry, and since then, he has not touched me again. Should I consider divorce
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Doesn’t “found you gisting with someone who once had feelings for you” mean you brought in another man into his home? And you get mind Sef to refuse intimacy. Lmaoo your hubby is a calm dude aje, from that moment on I wouldn’t have tried anything intimate with you again esp for your lack of remorse and manipulative agenda!
Your lack of remorse shows that you should really go for that divorce. Please let the man meet someone that will have utmost respect for him.