As somebody that doesn’t date for fun;
1. Her relationship with her ex after almost a year they’re still in contact (my number one reason)
2. Poor communication from her end.
3. Her family (my kids deserve better grandparents and uncles)
4. She loves soft girl life, while I’m not doing much financially but i am doing my best, I’m getting some impressions, and i don’t want to be pressured.
5. The relationship is about to go long distance, the months we spent together she didn’t convince me.
The first two reasons we have quarelled severally about them, i really wished this thing worked but i can’t help again.