Wowo girl syndrome

I don’t feel attractive. I grew up obese, my confidence has always been low. Lost 32kg, took me a year + from work out/diet but I’m still not beautiful. I have loose skin, all over my body. Now I’m slimmer it affected my face and I think I’m ugly. I hate taking photos because I never like how I look. I couldn’t post my convocation photos because I looked so off with the weight loss. I don’t even get toasted, it’s like I’m unseen even when I put so much effort into my dressing

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  1. I don’t know what you look like, but trust me, I know this has got nothing to do with how you look.

    It’s your self image that’s the issue here, and that’s a mindset thing.

    You could:

    1. Accept your looks as is, and love yourself by literally affirming “I love myself” with conviction 20x per day. Initially it would feel like a lie, but keep at it and soon you’d believe what you’ve been affirming.
    2. Baring a few exceptions, nobody is ugly per se.

    So that’s that, but if you still insist that you are “wowo”, then I’d have to confirm it myself… You could send me an email if you don’t mind.

    Have a good one.

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