I met a girl last year of whom we are friends, later in the long run we both got feelings for each other and everything was going smoothly that I began to gift, care and shelter her and treated her like my own girlfriend, like we are in a relationship because the relationship she was in is an abusive or toxic one, that the guy she is dating will always question her about any friend he sees her with both male and female. She can’t go out unless the guy says yes, like even if the guy isn’t in the same city with her but she conversing with her she will say her boyfriend said she should not go because of what the guy has done to her, out of 7 years of relationship this guy cheated on her with another guy for 5-6 years while she was loyal, while this girl has trauma and cries about it every single time she remembers it, and this guy won’t let any guy be close to her and for her to tell her female friends so they won’t advice her otherwise or for her to see there’s better and step outside. I’m trying to do stuff her guy isn’t doing just to make her have a rethink that there are other people out there who care for her and will be good to her or treat her better. One thing led to another we developed feelings for each other and this rated me over the guy but they are still dating and she visits the guy many times that I know of, I’m always the one trying to make her happy when that other one brings issues because almost everytime na wahala. We got to a point where we treat each other like we are dating and we do everything in a relationship except sex, she won’t let me do that which she will be like she can’t because she’s still dating and she can’t cheat, and that she wants to leave the guy when any other issue happens, but right now I feel like an option or like this is a love scam, because we are the stage where if she says yes we start dating, but she said I should give her more time because she has high hopes on the guy and she wanted to marry the guy before I come in the picture