I’m 23 years old now, I am tired of being single, like I want to settle down but I am trying not to rush into anything or look desperate. A guy came into my office today with his friend, yes I admit the friend was looking at me all through and I returned the gaze but I had my eyes on the guy. I actually loved his dress sense and how he speaks, everything about the guy looks really cool so they eventually did everything that brought them to my office and they left, before leaving the friend met me outside and asked for my number which I gave him. I got home and the guy I liked messaged me (he sent a document to my whatsapp to print for him) we were talking already and it was cool, I even asked him why he messaged me and he said he wants me (I was happy) only for him to change everything and say you gave my bro your number already we don’t have to talk again. I was so sad, I tried convincing him that I only gave the friend my number because I thought it was business related and I even opened up by telling that I like him, he ignored my text till now. I feel so sad, i don’t know what to do. I don’t know if i should text him again or I should let him be, I don’t even know if I did anything wrong moreover me and the friend only said hi hi to each other in the chat. I later deleted the message where I was explaining myself because it seems like he doesn’t care
in Confession
that’s crap, you’re a single adult, you guys were not dating you don’t owe him anything, you should have left the conversation at that never over explain yourself to a man you’re not in a relationship with, once you do that you’ve just given him more right to audacity. It never goes well