I have to let this off my mind. There’s this thing about relationships ladies don’t really know. Once a guy is into you, doesn’t matter how long you been together, he’s into you. Ladies get the least opportunity than men do in this life. Men take it off struggling, doing all sort of work just to finance themselves, family, relationships, even more and these ladies be out there thinking nigga is eating around outside. Yes, lots of guys do it but not everyone thou; more also when you have the chance to help your nigga who you been with for so long, do that, keep your mouth shut, let God bless y’all in and out. Lot of guys don’t even talk it out how they struggling, just so not to be seen as weak. A guy will change a girl’s life but a girl will leave a guy just because she’s getting it more overtime. I have lot of friends now who don’t want to marry because they don’t have the financial resources, even though they want to settle down so bad. Everyone going over time. God help us all sha