I fell out with a friend in 2022. After talking to mutual friends, I realized my faults and her faults too- the falling out wasn’t due to betrayal or anything, just communication issues and resentment build up. I tried to reach out to her a couple of times to talk about it and try to fix it but she ignored me. Fast forward to now, I found out from her closest male friend that she’s ill and going through a really tough time and I don’t know if I should reach out to her again and offer a bit of help. I’m really confused because from her previous actions, she didn’t want anything to do with me, but I don’t wish her bad at all.