Our father left us in 2005 to go be with his other woman. His excuse was that I and my sister are girls and since my mom can’t give him a son he was done with us. I was 8, my sister was 5. He stopped paying our fees and taking care of us. He came into the house one day and forcefully took our toys and dolls to go give the children of this other woman, that was the day I deleted him from my life. I am married currently and doing really well for myself, my sister is currently serving, my mom is really comfortable. My so called father is seriously ill and trying to reach out. Relatives are saying we should forgive blah blah blah. My shi shi, he no go see except it’s to buy his coffin. He never even got to have the son he wanted so bad 😏