After I relocated I started dating my boyfriend, it’s been 2.5 years now with long distance relationship. He adores me, buys me gift at the slightest and slips heart felt notes, he is my biggest fan, motivates me to do better. We both are doing extremely well for ourselves, I earn 6 figures here and my boyfriend is an odogwu in Nigeria, even if I decide not to work here, he can foot my bills without flinching. The problem is we both cannot travel to meet one another at the moment, I’m waiting on the government to issue my green card to enable me travel, my boyfriend is getting frustrated about not having sex, because we do phone sex for the most times, I know it’s hard to believe in this modern world, but that man has tried, because his transparency is top notch. He video calls at every given and never makes me feel insecure. So he said he will like to go on a date but he will let the girl know I’m present so he doesn’t want anything serious Which I agreed. Only first date, the girl is already saying he is talking about me too much. Meanwhile his family loves me too much, they tell him that it’s me or nobody else. I’m just confused