I’m 21, virgin and I don’t think I’m ready to lose it anytime soon, so there’s this guy that’s asking me out and he told me that he has had so many sexual experiences, I really love his honesty but I don’t think I want him cause if the case was reversed will he want me. To wrap it up he said he can get off his ex girlfriend sexual expression off his head till now, it was at that point I knew it’s not safe for me cause imagine having sex for the first time and your boyfriend is thinking about his ex girlfriend, am I wrong for thinking it’s not safe for me