I am not proud of it but I am quick to call people derogatory names even when it’s so unnecessary. My girlfriend complains that she doesn’t in any way appreciate it but I never actually mean that she is stupid or an idiot. I just say those cause I am angry. Just yesterday I saw another side of her, I called her stupid and she fired back. She said “go call your mother stupid, oh I forgot, you don’t even have one”., and stormed out. Did she have to bring up my dead mom. I am so livid.