Good day guys I’m so confused, there’s this guy I just started dating (5months) since then he has not asked me to spend days with him or weekend, I don’t know if this is normal. Whenever I talk about it he tells me I’m the one that’s not ready but I feel like if you want me to spend days in your space it should be from you even if it’s once, that way I’ll feel free and welcome and it’ll be easy to ask you myself next time. There was a time he was talking with his friend about how he warned him to not give that girl too much time like that bla bla, I think the lady cheated so they were like girls are always fucking up whenever you show them too much love. The last time I talked to him about it he said he wasn’t like that before but he’s changed now, why should I be the one to suffer for what your ex did.