I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years and even since we’ve been together he never said or asked me if I was willing to settle down with him. Infact I was the one always bringing up futures plans for us and it felt as if the relationships wasn’t heading anywhere. So recently I met a new guy and we started talking and within a month of us talking he told me he’s ready to settle down with me but whenever he talk about marriage I always feel he’s rushing things with me and I later found out he has 2 children with his baby mama, I’m confused at this point. Should I leave my boyfriend of 5years for this new guy or should I just keep dating my old boyfriend cause he claims he also has futures plans for me but the relationship is taking to long 🤦♀️
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