I’ve been having an affair with my boss since joining the company. We spend weekends together, he advises me on work and life, calls me everyday, but at work, he insists on keeping it a secret and even acts harshly to avoid suspicion. I’m 24, he’s in his late 30s or early 40s, and married to a white woman who is abroad, though he says it’s complicated. I’m catching feelings, but we’re not dating, and I feel conflicted about continuing because I don’t want to get hurt. I’ve even started to get jealous when he talks to other women. Although he said I shouldn’t reason all these things and have fun. But he’ll still respect any decision I make.