My ex was a somewhat inexperienced guy. He had only dated once before and that was it. He was pretty cool and all but we were not sexually compatible. Whenever we’re kissing, he’ll always want me to lead or get on top of him. One time we were kissing while standing, he wanted me to push him against the wall and pin him. Even when we had sex. It was basically just me on top of him. It really pissed me off. The final straw was when I noticed that he uses lipgloss. What happened to lip balm or something less effeminate