I’m 25 years old. I’m in a relationship that’s about 3 months old. I have a problem with giving men money. Like it’s not just something I can ever do. I had a bad experience that changed my perspective, I have to see that you’re really in need before i can even think of helping me. I hate being taken advantage of, so I’m extremely guarded. The last person that tried doing that with me regrets meeting me till this day because I collected everything back and did a lot of reputational damage. The most I’ve ever done for my man is buy him food sometimes but that’s as far as I can go.