So, I’m serving in Taraba. When I first got here, my accomodation was not ready so I had to look for an alternative. This guy that I met in camp offered that I could stay in his place. He’s not a corper by the way, just someone that I happened to meet in camp. Against my better judgement, fueled by the fact that I didn’t want to stay in the corper’s lodge. I stayed with him. So, in the course of my stay in his place, I got to know a few things about him. He’s a big time hustler because he came from nothing and is doing really well. He’s single because the last 2 girls he dated married other people. He also told me that he’s a virgin which I don’t doubt because it’s pretty obvious. He’s also an elder in his church. So, I saw him as a big brother because he’s almost a decade older than me. Along the line, he started to tell me how he really loves me and wanted something serious with me. That’s when the cracks started to show. I never felt attracted to him and never rated him enough to even want to date him because to be honest, his English was terrible AF despite finishing with a first class. He kept pressuring me which eventually got annoying. On multiple occasions he tried to steal kisses from me which infuriated me really badly. I always pulled out. What made me completely closed off from him was the fact that he had expressed his disdain for plus size women which i fall under and it just seemed hypocritical to me. He made my weight an issue the first few days I got to his house, always commenting on it. The second thing that pissed me off is that he’s always criticizing women. According to him, he believes any woman that’s above the age of 30 that’s still single used her life to fuck around and it just gives fickle mindedness and double standards because he’s almost 35 himself and still a virgin. Some women might find that cute, but I don’t. This man is very active in his church by the way, participates in building their pastors house, his church members come to his house unannounced most times but the final straw that made me just realize that he’s a few years away from being a fool forever was one day when we were having a conversation about my ex, i told him how i really missed him and how i missed the way he used to eat my pussy. I don’t know if he started to feel insecure or something, but he proceeds to tell me how much he finds the concept of head irritating. That he can never give head even to his wife or receive. I marked his words. A few days later, I initiated a make out session with him. I was playing with his dick when he tried pulling my head down to give him head. I quickly ended it. Reminding him of what he had said earlier. He immediately became defensive that that was a week ago and blah blah blah. I sha ended the conversation with you’re a hypocrite. He got angry and was like I should leave his house that he’s getting a bad omen. They don’t disrespect me that way. I immediately packed my shit, as he saw that I was seriously about to leave, he started begging me to stay that he was joking. It was around 7 pm by the way. He was like even if I want to go, I should wait till morning. I ignored him till I walked out of his house not looking back. By the way, i had already gotten my place at this point but we had severe power outage in my side for about 3 months and I came to his place because i needed to charge my devices. I don’t trust all these fanatics. They’re the real devils pretending to be deputy Jesus. If you ever ride with this guy in a car, you’ll be extremely irritated. He’ll criticize everything he sees. Trying to make himself seem superior. In his life, even though I blocked him everywhere, he won’t overdo in my side