‪I got engaged to my man🥰 last two months. He met my family and now it’s my turn to meet his. I came to meet his family and I am staying with him. Some of his family members are not cool with it. Let’s just say that I have been tagged as a loose girl because I am staying with a man I am not officially married to.‬ It makes to my knowledge that he had a principle of not wanting to a girl to stay with him until officially married, but he has broken that principle and i am getting the blames of being a bad influence or something.‬ As it stands this particular family member has tagged me a big red flag.‬

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I am not trying to justify myself or anything. It’s a distance relationship and I had to come see his people in a strange city that I have never been to. When I am supposed to stay.
In his family house with people I am yet to know. Hotel is too cost. The world is scary, but I’ll be fine.

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I am reading lot of the comments and I am not trying to justify myself. I am not cohabiting with him. I only came to meet his family for the first time in a city I have never been to before, because it is a distance relationship. Where am I supposed to stay, In his family house or his house. The country is too expensive to be staying in an hotel.