I recently moved abroad and my girlfriend of 3 years still won’t find something to learn or do, we keep having issues over the fact that I want her to learn something I am willing to pay for whatever that is, she just wants me to come back marry her and take her abroad. I have never thought of leaving her but this days I want a support not a liability. Fuck I’m now reconsidering, all I ask is that you agree to learn anything please, is that too much to ask. I really love this girl, I feel hurt typing this.