My marriage is just 3 years old, but I have faced a lot of challenges this year because of the things I did while dating. How can I not know anything about my husband, it frustrates me. He says I trapped him in this marriage and sees himself as perfect while I’m always the one with issues. I feel this marriage can still work, but he has given up on it already. He checked my phone and saw that I still chat with one of my ex-friends. To be honest, we only discuss business, share ideas, and all, but he believes I still have something going on with this person whom I haven’t seen in 4-5 years. I truly do love him, but he doesn’t believe that. How do I redeem myself in this marriage, with my 5mins anger issues, trust issues, and all. He uses the silent treatment to hurt me, I want to keep my marriage.