My man punishes me sexually and I read that it’s an abuse. If we have a fight and I’m wrong he’d just say he’d deal with me later and what it means is that he’d either tease me very well and refuse to touch me so I beg and beg or he would be very aggressive whenever he’s making love to me. Asides this act of he’s when he’s upset, he’s a very calm man but my friends say it’s a form of abuse.