My kid sister is pissing me off. I do not get involved in her relationship, she fights anyone that has an opinion about it. This year, they said they want to marry. I asked what their plan is. Fair right. She says she wants to relocate back to Nigeria. 3 months later, I ask again just to make sure it’s her decision, she said I asked her before and she feels disrespected that I’m asking again. I apologized. I don’t think there’s anything wrong in asking, moving back is a big deal. Everyone walks around eggshells around them. His name gives me anxiety because there’s problem if anyone mentions it. Now his mum has been barred from speaking with my parents because she said some funny stuff to my mum. E.g ask if my sister is the jealous type. I dont think the barred relationship would be healthy for my sister in the long run, so I asked my sister if I could speak with the guy about it. Then as expected she pops off saying I don’t have a relationship with him, everytime I speak with him, I always have a complaint. This was shocking because I rarely speak with him and I don’t call him to complain about anything. Then she says I’m toxic. Emi Toxic. I called the guy asked him when I called him to complain, he said never and sent her the voicenote of the call.