I graduated from school and I have been home for more than 6 months now and I feel like I’m wasting away, my boyfriend and I are going through an hard time financially. I spoke to my parents and they got me a place in Lagos even if it’s not the best. First off, I’m scared of moving cause I don’t want to suffer financially (what if I don’t get a job). Secondly, my boyfriend doesn’t want me to travel cause he feels I’ll lose feelings and see someone else who would be better than him in ways he has treated me. He has cheated on me and done a lot. He also says he won’t be able to financially support me cause of how we are struggling and he says he feels so bad about it even though we are presently not in the same place right now. I really don’t know if I’m making the best decision to move. What if ! Just what if!