A fact, You can’t lie to yourself; You can’t unsee red flag but you’re staying, why. Is it soul tie. No, definitely not. Is it love. Not anymore. Was it ever love, Infatuation or I just wanted to keep having sex with one person. No matter how hard I think I go, it doesn’t feel like it matters. It doesn’t feel enough. It doesn’t feel like love is being reciprocated. I believe love is sacrifice. And that’s what men offer in a relationship and that’s how we best express our love. So yes, the answer is love, I do love her but when an energy isn’t matched. It can only mean one thing. “She’s not the one for you”. This expression by writing out how I truly feel has given me clarity.  Solutions. 1. Stay and watch how it eventually goes down the drain because there’s no future here. Will that be a waste of my time. 2. Break up, deal and move on. Might be sooner.