I don’t know if this is a problem but If I’m having a conversation with someone and if the person doesn’t have a proper opinion on that issue or if the person has an ill opinion it makes me see the person differently. It happens with my partner too, there are some conversations we have that his opinion doesn’t just makes sense, it makes me get irritated on he things. Like I can’t unsee it until days go bye. I still communicate and laugh with him tho but it’s still stays in my head