My ex was extremely abusive in many ways. I dumped him after he hit me once and within the same period found out he was cheating with a supposed ex who’s 6 years younger than I am. He got together with her after begging me to come back and I refused. Engaged her soon after and married her before i even blinked. Came back weeks after his marriage, begging and telling me he engaged her to spite me thinking I’ll run back and regrets it. Tried to buy me gifts and saying it’s his loss. I blocked him everywhere. Funny thing is that I’m quite stylish and he always raved about my looks. His wife is quite bland in that sense. While my wardrobe is impeccable and effortless, I’ve seen her viewing my IG stories diligently and then try so hard to recreate some of my very unique pieces or do absurd combos to look stylish outside of what her typical jeans and t-shirt style is. I wonder if he has angrily compared her to me, cause he did that when we were together with another of his exes. Difference is I’m not insecure and didn’t care. And I can tell he picks her outfits because he’s that controlling and used to want to do that with me, selecting weird combos, or buying me lame, throwback clothes which I resisted. If it didn’t dey, it didn’t dey.