My girlfriend is an amazing person and I love her so much, but she is very independent to the point that it is a problem. Her family is well off and I have a great job that pays me well. She’s studying and working and has recently come into a problem but she won’t accept help from her family or me. I want to go ahead and sort out the problem but I have a feeling that if I do, she might stop telling me about anything. I told her brother today, but she’s just said to me she doesn’t want her family worrying. I think I messed up.