So I met this guy on Instagram on the first of this month and he’s not the best guy o but he’s been communicating with me so well and made his intentions clear that he loves me and he wants to marry me if possible, he stays in Canada while I stay In Nigeria. But the problem now is that, he wants to come to Nigeria this month end, he wants me to come pick him at the airport with his brother and stay with him until he leave and I know sex will be involved which I don’t want it to, I have been single and celibate for 7months now and I don’t want sex to be the reason why our relationship didn’t work out because I like him and I want it to work out, do you think it’s proper to sleep with him after a month of been together. But I’m scared that he might not get in touch with me anymore once he gets to Canada. But I’m sure my insecurities is the reason I’m feeling this way. He has told his uncles and brothers about me and they have texted me already. I’m scared 😟, I don’t want to lose him and I don’t know if I should just have sex with him and give him a trial because I know there’s no way someone will come all the way from Canada because of me and not try to have sex with me and is it proper for me to stay with him for a week. I don’t know if he’s trying to test me but he promise to pay for my hair, lash and club wears before because he said we will have to club and now he’s saying I should go natural or he will give me when he gets back. How will I go and meet you for the first time with rough hair (I will definitely make my hair even if he’s not here but my plan is to make my hair the following week because I just sort some of my house bill).
in Confession