I’m 19 turning 20 next month, I’m in a talking stage with a 35 year old allegedly oh cause that’s the age he told me. He’s cool and all has literally been the sweetest, he’ll be planning dates and I’m always cancelling everytime cause it all feels weird. He looks good for his age and doesn’t even act his age, that’s what is even very suspicious to me cause how many gen zs have you been with that you even act like one, even on texts he’ll be texting like my age mate lol. So last Sunday I went on a dinner date with him cause my best friend convinced me to, I was anxious all through from the moment i stepped into the restaurant but he was trying so hard to calm me down, holding my hand and all making me even feel more anxious, I was literally shaking I honestly don’t know why but the date went well. He’s so good with words, we even planned on going to church today then go out after, he has the whole day planned for us, he told me that he doesn’t want a sneaky relationship that he can come talk to my dad about his intentions so that if am with him, my dad will know who I’m with and know am safe but I just laughed about it. He said his intentions are pure and he really likes me and he also wants to be close to me but that’s when I’m comfortable enough to be his woman, the way he talks is different or maybe he’s just really good with words. I told my best friend he’s too good to be true, she said I’m too toxic that’s why i feel
that way. I can’t even talk to him properly cause of the age difference, I’m always so respectful. What’s your say on older men. Are they genuine or they’re just really good at deceiving young girls, I’m really trying to be careful. I’ve never pictured my self with an older man like never