I have been dating this girl for over a year now and I’ve never hurt her. l always do everything to make her happy, she used to be very slim and after we started dating she started gaining weight as a result of me taking good care of her, which is something I love and I like how she has added now. I’ve gifted her so many things ranging from expensive hair, several surprise packages, bags, shoes, skin care, etc. Even her friends are jealous of her because of how I care for her. Lately, her attitudes depicts that she isn’t appreciative of all that I’ve done so far. Somehow, I got to know that she has been telling her friends that she would leave me if she sees a man who will spend more on her, that I am stingy, also telling her admirers that she’s single and doesn’t have a boyfriend. All that I’ve noticed lately shows that she’s about to cheat once she sees opportunity. I feel like it doesn’t make sense being in a relationship with a girl who sees dating as just a means to get money and gifts from men, whereas she doesn’t see a future with that person. It’s better I remain single than waste my time with a girl who would leave me soon if she finds someone richer than me. I might just give up on love
in Confession
Don’t give up on love. Love is beautiful. You just need to change your taste in women. At the same time, ask God to guide you.