My boyfriend of almost two years is extremely needy. He’s eight years older than I am but never wants to take control of anything. He’s always seeking self pity. He wants me to assume the role of a wife and mother already. He says he’s already seeing me beyond the girlfriend light but it’s starting to get annoying. He’s 31 and it’s starting to look like he’s got no ambition or anything. It’s always like I’m dating my age mate.