Why are people mean. I was open to someone, tried my best to express myself and the second I bring up an issue about us he goes and says a lot of mean things and with all that I was still ready to put in the work for what ever form of relationship we had. Just to be told I need to think, no problem but now it’s been over 2 weeks and here I am still thinking. If you don’t feel a certain way about someone just say it before the person puts all their time and energy into you to later be left as waste.