My dad is a very lazy man who watched my mum provide for all of us and suffered to train us. I used to vow that i will never deal with a man like him, there was a time i blamed my mum for getting married to him but now, since when i had started dating 5 years ago i have been dating different versions of him. Men who don’t do shit for me and always wants to use me. Men that will rather take from me than give, as down to earth and pretty as i am lol shit is real