I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 4 years now and our sex life has been whack (my fault). I was almost rapped as a teenager in secondary school (as close as my pants down) and I couldn’t talk to anyone about it then so I had to suppress my feelings. My boyfriend and I started dating in my first year of university. He’s very sexually active (wants sex everyday) while I can do without. I feel like what happened has affected my life sexually. I like sex with my boyfriend (he makes me cum et all) but I’ve never initiated before. Sometimes often than not, I turn him down when he asks for sex cause I’m not in the mood. When I try to explain to o him, he doesn’t understand. Sometimes my body shuts down on me and I believe my sexual brakes are much more sensitive than my accelerator (meaning I easily get turned off than on). I’m tired