In a relationship, same age 31. He’s not ready for marriage cause he wants to be more comfortable, I am ready. He loves, respects and cares for me, somehow I want to be part of his life, he’s told me to be patient who knows in 3 years he will be more than able to marry me but I think I will be shooting myself in the leg if I stay. I want my own husband and kids, at the same time I want to love the man I marry. I am a wonderful woman, he’s an incredible man, everyone loves us together and I know we deserve one another if he will be willing to fight for us and not just let me go. Did I say he wants me to be better off even without him in the picture- i.e being someone else’s wife if someone who’s ready surfaces. I am not dating anyone at the moment and I am scared I might truly never find a better him if I try.
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They’re gas lighting you and you dey whine yourself. No guy in his 30s would state you should move on if he truly sees the wife material in you. To find good girls dey hard these days so for him to say move on. He is eithe delusional or you aren’t wanted. Know your place and move on.