Sometime in 2021, I had sex with a ‘yahoo boy’. Funny enough, I didn’t think anything like that will happen cause we were quite close so I wouldn’t have suspected. Recently, I started noticing that anytime I sleep with a guy, he will start having financial issues and stuff like that. I don’t know if it’s just in my head cause he didn’t mention anything like that. My ex (when we used to date) said that after I visited, he stopped having money. So I started thinking that something might be wrong somewhere but this never used to be the case even while we were together. I’m a good girl and I don’t deserve this. I just hope it’s all in my head.