If only I was taught about relationship stuff earlier, that love is not about allowing him to your honey pot earlier without showing working. If I had mingled with more friends back then or even if my sisters had opened up to me, sha I got used without a dime (ash nor dey my eyes)e pain me sha at that point but I learned my lessons now. I just came across a random thought and remembered how I used to be madly in love with a guy like that, I didn’t ask for money at initial stage forming good girl. He even said I’m different, meanwhile baba put another girl for weekly allowance. Bottom line let these men invest in you before opening your legs, so he won’t have the mind to say the only thing you offered was ur pum pum and naive
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There is no logic in your rant. In the end you still confirm that the only thing you can offer a man is your vj alone. Sad!
At what point did being a good girl equal not asking a man for money? Can’t you take care of yourself by yourself? Can’t you have sex and not think about it being transactional? If you want money, is your pussy the only thing you have to offer? I wonder where you girls got it wrong. It’s not your parents definitely.