It’s not easy out there!

My husband and I are both in our twenties, he is 29 and I’m 25. We got married last year, my company is owing close to six month salaries and my husband has been supportive. He’s hard working ,loving, gentle, caring and everything I could ask for. Everything was going well until I suggested we relocate. We budgeted #10m, I came up with #3m I saved and also sold some of my material things. We’ve gotten to the stage of booking flight and paying one or two, every properties he tried to sell we couldn’t get a buyer for it. We couldn’t raise #3m, debtors are not paying. Everything is tiring and frustrating, he may be young but he is responsible. He doesn’t know how to ask for help, he said he does not want to bother anyone. I told him I’m fine, that even if we don’t leave Nigeria we can still be fine just to console him because I don’t want him to be too desperate or kill himself over it. I regret telling him to let us relocate, I saw my husband cry for the first time and I was really heartbroken. I don’t know what else to do, I spoke to one or two people but they don’t want to help or borrow. His school resumption date is close, we are suppose to leave together. I even suggest he go first but we couldn’t sell or get any money. I don’t know what to do, I am all he has. He has been loving and supportive, I wish a miracle can just happen. I’m so down, I can’t even stop thinking about how he cried, he has pride and he is not the type to cry or break down easily. God we need you!

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