I’m 20 turning 21 and all I can say is the dating pool of my agemates / generation is a big mess. So instead I stay in a relationship where I put my all and still get played by my age mate,I’d rather stay with this older man and date him, though he’s working towards getting married to his baby mama, at least he’s very honest with me, I know my place in his life and he’s really really supportive financially. And for someone that is not even looking for something serious emotionally, I don’t mind being he’s supportive sidechick