I realized how much I can loose my attraction for someone ones the person seems like he’s lost attraction for me. I was in a talking stage with this guy, there was a time he just acted so distant with me and I was honestly hurt about it. I reasoned maybe I was pushing myself to him way too much and decided I would distance myself. Few days later, he started talking normally with me, like how we use to talk. But I’ve decided I won’t be as into him as I was before because I honestly can’t go through that again so I won’t reason him much again. If he wants me, he should man up.