I’ve been talking to my boyfriend that I want to become celibate, I have my reasons for wanting to become celibate. I’m just 19 and I feel I’m very small, what if we don’t get married, I would be very hurt because I want to marry the person who disvirgined me, I don’t want to have more than one body count, then one thing led to another, we started to kiss and I stopped him from having sex with me. He felt really hurt, so we talked about it the next day and he said he was very hurt by it, then he told me if I don’t want to have sex again hope I will be okay with him having sex with another lady, he said I was being selfish that I’m considering just myself of being celibate. He later apologized that he was angry when he said it, but it won’t be be easy for him to stay away from sex. Please I want to ask am I being selfish? Was he right? Am I the problem here? Yes he was the one that dis virgined