Dated this guy, he caught his ex having a 4some with 4guys and they broke up. She was the sexy/hot/crazy type. Into the relationship I noticed he constantly goes to her page to view her story, she flaunts her ass a lot and wears very revealing clothes showing her assets. I expressed my distaste’s but he’d say it’s just for entertainment. We have similar features so I guess it’s a spec thing. One day we had a fight and he just went straight to view her status 😱. He complained I don’t dress sexy but to me sexiness doesn’t mean walking around half naked, it’s not my thing and I find it embarrassing to myself and family. I even bought a few ashawo clothes and when I wore them out i was ashamed and uncomfortable throughout, always looking down. Our last fight he told me I wasn’t sexy and it was like he compared me to her and so I ended it despite his pleading. My confidence is now low and insecurity high, idk if I can even please a guy cause idk if I am hot enough anymore
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I’m really tired no lies the man I love is doing me anyhow after months of pleading I feel he’s not interested anymore I wish he can just tell me his mind so I can know what to do
Sorry love, but I’m really glad you left the scumbag. He’s undeserving of you baby girl, modesty will always be sexy. But your confidence/self esteem is something you need to work on. You need to take control of it, don’t let any man tell you are are not enough. You can listen to inspiring videos and stuff too on how yo build self esteem. Always remember; you are the price!!
You are hot! Beautiful and perfect. Just the way you are! E wo nau! You’re a whole spec! Stop that please. Look in the mirror. Can’t you see??? All that hotness, and you’re doubting yourself???
Please don’t❤️