I’m female and the breadwinner in my home. I’m considering relocating abroad with my kids. My husband seems contented with life but I want more. He loses jobs as soon as he gets them and he is unbothered, as he gets allowance from me. I overlook it because he takes care of the children when they return from school. I do 90% of the chores. I can’t continue to cater to a full-grown able-bodied man. I’m also paranoid and can’t leave my children in the care of strangers while I’m at work.