I went to my relatives house for a while and it was “different”, I felt like their parents were neglectful and did a bad job in raising them. when I got home I told my mother about my experience and how dirty and lazy sai
d “relatives” are and that their mom was not raising them well. Today, I realized that my mother was the exact same if not worse. I just randomly started to think about everything and mehn my mother did a bad job raising my siblings and I, no emotional relationship whatsoever. just “do chores” “learn how to cook for your future husband” “read so you can get a good job in future to support us”. I’ve sha learnt my lesson to not judge anyone.