I’ve been in a relationship for years now, we will be 5 years in June and I’m unhappy, but I can’t do anything. Everytime I start talking about break up , he starts saying things like you are a fool and stop looking for what is not there and I don’t know how to just say I’ve been unhappy. The whole extended family is involved in our relationship, my mom asked when we are getting married , I just want to disappear.