I need therapy. The amount of breakups I’ve had…there’s this guy I dated on and off because he’s too quiet. We live in different cities and he’s always quiet when I’m around, it frustrated all the time and I told him about it but he didn’t do much about it. I learnt that we are all diff & now I’m ready & intentional to make it work but he says he doesn’t want me anymore because he thinks I’ll still change my mind & leave him again because he is still the same person.