My boyfriend cheated on me with this particular girl and refused to stop talking to her despite many fights. My work is planning to go for a retreat on the 13-14th of Feb and I just told him in passing because it hasn’t been finalized yet, now I saw a text from him to her saying “I want to spend time with you. Let’s spend 13-14 together” I’m disgusted, she declined but I know he might be able to persuade her.