Why do most guys stop putting effort when they find out the girl has started reciprocating the vibes!? Someone that calls and texts regularly, now all of a sudden he’s always busy yet he’s very much online. It kinda hurts though but I’m not gon’ force anything neither will I bug him. I’ll just go with the flow and probably ghost him too. Why do guys do this?
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My dear ghost him…at least give him very dull and late replies for a week
Just watch and see him putting more effort to get your attention back just to repeat the same cycle
If he doesn’t put more effort just know he’s not for you